Care Package Update

Care Package 4 - Thank you so much Setliffe Family!













Your boys were seriously the cutest boys EVER!!! The oldest boy was all smiles & giggles!! He LOVED the bouncy balls & was full of joy playing with them. He chased them everywhere & laughed every time they bounced. He was so smiley & just kept looking at us & lighting up. You are going to love his sweet personality. He looked very healthy and seems to be such a joy!! Your youngest was a little more reserved, but still such a sweetheart. His eyes pierce to your soul and I just fell in love with him! He loved all the toys & really enjoyed the fruit snacks! He was playing with the balls too & he really loved them. He also seemed really healthy...just a little more cautious than his brother. Amy, you are seriously going to fall in love with those boys the second you meet them! They LOVED the pictures and kept flipping through again & again! Praying that your travel plans come together & you get to them SOON!!








This is our favorite photo:


















1/08/10 - Do You Know When You're Traveling Yet?

We of course have been asked this many times and everyone, including us, is excited to learn of our tentative travel dates!

However, there are three families ready to travel next week, who have been waited listed at the Embassy in Ethiopia. Apparently a new rule has been created or a old one is being enforced that each agency can have only 10 family appointments per date. There were at least 13 families signed up for an appointment at the Embassy (this is where families go to obtain the visas for their children to travel back into the United States) in the next travel group and so 3 families, who have purchased their tickets and are ready to travel to get their children and bring them home to their forever families, are on hold. There was hopes they would know today what was happening but it looks like our agency will meet with the Embassy on Monday instead. Please pray these three families would be allowed to travel!

So our agency is not telling those of us who have passed court when our travel dates are as they need to see what will happen with these three families.

1/07/10 - Merry Ethiopian Christmas!

Christmas Traditions in Ethiopia
Ethiopia (and especially the Ethiopian Orthodox Church) still use the old Julian calendar, so the celebrate Christmas on January 7th, not December 25th! The Christmas celebration in the Ethiopian Orthodox Church is called Ganna. Most people go to Church on Christmas day.

Many people fast (don't eat anything) on their 'Christmas Eve' (6th). At dawn on the morning of Ganna, people get dressed in white. - we'll dress in white this day! Most people wear a traditional garment called a shamma. It's a thin white cotton piece of cloth with brightly colored stripes across the ends. It's worn like a toga. If you live in a big town or city you might wear 'western' clothes. The early Ganna mass starts at 4am!


The Ethiopian capital city is Addis Ababa. It's a modern city. Most people who live outside big cities live in round house made of mud-plastered walls which have thatched cone-shaped roofs. Sometimes houses in the country are rectangular and made of stone.


The design of Ethiopian Church is similar to the houses. In the country, they are often very old and have been carved out of rock. In cities, modern churches are built in three circles, each within the others.
The choir sings from the outer circle. Everyone who goes to church for the Ganna celebrations is given a candle. The people walk around the church three times in a solemn procession, holding the candles. They then go to the second circle to stand during the service. The men and boys are separated from the women and girls. The center circle is the most important and holy place in the church and is where the priest serves the Holy Communion or mass.

It's also a tradition that one of the Wise Men who visited Jesus came from Ethiopia.


Around the time of Ganna, the men and boys play a game that is also called ganna. It's played with a curved stick and a round wooden ball, a bit like hockey.

Traditional Christmas foods in Ethiopia include wat which is a thick and spicy stew that contains meat, vegetables and sometimes eggs (sounds yummy!). Wat is eaten on a 'plate of injera - a flat bread. Pieces of the injera are used as an edible spoon to scoop up the wat. - we'll be eating doro wat, a chicken stew, next year with the boys to celebrate! (Amy has actually made doro wat before - Daddy and the boys will have spicy stew and Mommy will make hers separate with less spices!)

Twelve days after Ganna, on 19th January, Ethiopians start the three day celebration of Timkat. It celebrated the baptism of Jesus. Children walk to church services in a procession. They wear the crowns and robes of the church youth groups that they belong to. Adults wear the shamma. The priests wear red and white robes and carry embroidered fringed umbrellas.

Musical instruments are played during the Timkat procession. The sistrum is a percussion instrument with tinkling metal disks a bit like a vertical tambourine. A makamiya, a long T-shaped prayer stick is used to keep the rhythm and is also used by the priests and a stick to lean on during the long Timkat church service!

Ethiopian men also play a sport called yeferas guks. It's played on horseback and the men throw ceremonial lances at each other (sounds rather dangerous!).


People don't give and receive present during Ganna and Timkat. Sometimes children might be given a small gift of some clothes from their family members. It's more a time for going to church, eating lots and playing games! - we'll begin the tradition next year of giving a small gift of clothing, possibly something we purchase in Ethiopia

75% Off Target Finds!

How great are these:


This one we plan on keeping in the boys room year round:


And it's no coincidence that these are green and gold!

Getting Ready for the Plane Ride - The Boys' Backpacks

We began looking for backpacks for the boys in the beginning of December and we didn't really like anything we saw - too many character ones that they wouldn't know who they were. Searching online on day Amy found these:
Pretty awesome, eh!!


We have begun to fill them with a few light and fun to play with on the plane items:

The Murals Are Done!

Mike has finished the room!! He actually finished right before Christmas and in time for the phone call saying we had passed court. I wonder what the boys will think when they see this:



The Boys Are Ready for Winter!

The boys are ready to face the cold and snow of the Midwest!! We have winter coats, snow pants, boots (thank you Julie for the snow pants and boots!), hats and mittens, and gloves. And since we received sleds for the boys for Christmas - they are all set!!

Wonder what the boys will think of snow?!

Christmas Presents for the Boys

Amy's Gramma has started a tradition of giving her great grandchildren a copy of The Night Before Christmas. Even though the boys are not here yet, she still wanted to give us a copy!


Our friends the Fishers, who Mike has known for about 30 years and who live in Wisconsin, are helping us show the boys which football team to cheer for:
And how cute will John and Ryan look in these - perhaps cheering the Packers on in the Superbowl!!

Care Package Updates

Now that we have passed court and the boys are legally ours, we are so excited to be able to share all the pictures taken for us by families delivering our care packages!!

Care Package 1 - Thank you Sabini Family!!











"The attached pictures are of Ephrem, Eyob was away from the TH at a routine medical appointment. I asked twice if he returned and they took his care package to give to him later.
Ephrem is a sweet little boy. He looks a bit worried in your photos because he was just presented to us by his nanny--she had to return to her other kiddos...so I am sorry to get such a worried little face on your photo. He walks well; he is alert and obviously knows strangers from his nanny. He
cries appropriately. He seems to hear acutely. He got a little scared when we opened the care packages...so I just decided to love on him and prayed over him. I brought him back to his little play group and then he wouldn't leave me...he just stood with me...I assured him you were coming soon and showered him with kisses and hugs. He is a sweetie and will be incredibly blessed to be in the arms of his mother and father--forever!!!"







Care Package 2 - Thank You Butler Family!!
"Your two boys were soooo sweet. They couldn’t wait to get into their snack bags. We had a hard time explaining to them that they could only eat one at a time. They wanted everything opened so they could try everything. We also found that the small toy dinosaurs you sent seemed to scare them a little so we left them in a small bag for later. Hopefully they warm up soon."






Care Package 3 - Thank You Roach Family!!











"Your boys are just the sweetest little guys!! Can't remember which one is which but the little one is definitely the more reserved little guy and just taking things in. The older one is just the best big brother! He seems to be protective and nurturing with his little brother. They are really adorable. By the way, just my opinion, but I think your little guys favor you both!"











12/30/09 - So What Happens Next?

After wishing us congratulations, everyone has either asked this question or thought it: "So, what happens next?" And the simple answer ... we keep waiting!

We are now into the phase of waiting for tentative travel dates. Our international agency America World will email us with tentative travel dates probably next week, but they will not be concreate until all necessary paperwork is complete.

Paperwork still needing to be completed/approved:
* Our new fingerprints (taken today as the old ones expire January 15)
* Our home study update which increased our age range (begun in September and received by USCIS December 2nd)
* A new home study update because Mike has a different job (just when we thought life couldn't get any crazier!)

PRAISE: We continue to praise God for the wonderful gift of the boys and are sooooo excited for them to begin life here! And we praise God because they are coming home!!!

PRAYER: We need HUGE prayer for speed and efficiency in getting all our paperwork done and approved and to the correct offices - "Savior He can move the mountains" and we have a few mountains to move over the month of January!!