10/21/09 - Care Package (and a few other things) Shopping

We are able to send care packages to the boys in Ethiopia through the generosity of those traveling before us. A sweet friend Meg on my Yahoo Group answered my question, which asked if anyone traveling had room to take care packages with a "Why yes I do ... for two little boys!"
We went shopping the night after the referral to find little treasures to tuck each each of the boys' gallon zip lock care packages:
So each of the boys will get a soccer shirt, two cars, a magnifying glass, a little notebook and crayons, really cool hologram animal stickers, and a photo album (that's the white, blank looking thing! It's awaiting pictures).

We also found a few other things:

Gotta love the Dollar Store! These will fit so well with the castle play set in the back yard - and of course there are two sets!!
And these shirts were too cute, and completely seem appropriate if you've seen Younger Brother's smile!
And I wanted matching pajamas for the boys. I remember my Mom dressing my brother and I in matching Winnie the Pooh pajamas from Sears when we were little and as an adult I think we looked adorable! Those are footballs on these matching pajamas.
And if you're wondering, a new bedspread that will be much more boyish is on the way!

10/20/09 - The Stork Has Landed!!!

We are beyond excited to announce that we are the very proud and blessed parents of two beautiful little boys!

I (Amy) received the call at work Tuesday morning. Since Mike had worked the night before, he did not wake up when the phone rang at home. We had already agreed that we wanted to hear the news together, so my work graciously sent another teacher into my room so I could go home and wake Mike up! It was the longest car ride home ever but I drove the speed limit because I didn't want to get a ticket on the way home to hear referral information!!! Mike heard me come in the door and thought, "The phone rang awhile ago, and now I hear the front door opening, maybe I should get up and make sure everything is okay." After telling me this, I just smiled and said, "It's Referral Day!"

We went downstairs and called back Nicole, our Family Coordinator at our international adoption agency, - and she was on lunch!! I then called the 800 number to ask if they could search the office for her. After waiting about 5 minutes, the wonderful receptionist came back on to say she couldn't find Nicole anywhere! So we thanked her and I started cleaning the house as I knew people would be coming over that evening!!! We only had to wait about 15 minutes, the phone rang, the caller ID said America World, and we heard the wonderful words, "We have two little boys for you!"

We are not allowed to post their pictures, ages, or personal information until after they legally become ours, but I can tell you John Michael E*** and Ryan Elijah E***** are healthy and loved!

Please join us in praising God - these are the children He had chosen to entrust to us since before the beginning of time!!

NEXT STEPS:
1. Sign our referral acceptance letter and return it to our agency America World. Once they receive it, they can petition the courts in Ethiopia for a court date.
2. Approximately 3 weeks from now, we should find out when our court date will be. We are GUESSING end of December or beginning of January. A week or so after finding out our court date, we will be issued tentative travel dates.
3. Once we pass court, we would travel 2-3 weeks after to bring the boys home! 40% of families do not pass court the first time for a variety of reasons (the judge decided not to come in that day, loss of electricity, something is not in order with our paperwork or the orphanage's paperwork, a birth family relative is not able to arrive on that day, and many, many other reasons). If our first court date is not successful, our agency would work to fix whatever needs fixing, and then we would be assigned another court date. That new date could be a few days or weeks later.

While all this is going on, our home study age range is being updated from 0-3 years old to 0-6 years old. We began this process in September and right now are waiting for approval from Illinois DCFS Inter Country Coordinator. Once we have that approval, our wonderful social worker Faith will forward the information to USCIS (United States Citizenship and Immigration Services). USCIS will then approve it - hopefully the first time! - and the information will be forwarded to Ethiopia. Ethiopia must have the correct information before we can travel to get the boys. At this point we are not worried about the time frame for all of this, and we are praying for that feeling to continue!!

PRAISE AND PRAYER: We are beyond blessed to not only receive a referral for two healthy, handsome boys, but to have received it so much earlier than we thought we would (we were thinking February) and to have so, so, so many family members and friends just as excited as we are!!! Please pray for our boys in Ethiopia - that they would feel safe, that they would be loved, and that they would continue to be healthy and gain weight. Please pray also that the updating of our home study would be a smooth and quick process!!

09/29/09 - 4 Months!

Four months have passed since our paperwork was sent to Ethiopia!

This week I was completely blow away by the power and plans of God: A family adopting through our agency and requesting siblings received a referral for a four year old girl and were obviously overjoyed. But the next day, new information was discovered resulting in their referral being pulled - heartbreak. If this family knew at the time what the reasons were for their referral being pulled they did not share. They simply shared their heart ache, asked for prayers, and trusted in God. Less then a week later, they were referred not only their precious little four year old girl again but her two year old brother - a sibling had been discovered. The family's original desire for siblings was realized. But here is the amazing God part: had our agency known originally that this little girl had a brother and was part of a sibling pair, they would have been referred to someone closer to the top of the waiting list. But God's plan, from before the beginning of time, was for these two children to be part of the family they are in now.

God has known, since before the beginning of time, the names and faces of the two children He will bring into our family from far away Ethiopia. Nothing can thwart His plan. Nothing can get in His way. And that is something worth waiting for!!!

09/24/09 - More Shots and a Great Find at the Zoo

We were off to get more shots, this time Hepatitis B. We go back in one month for part 2 of the Hep B shot and then sometime after February for part 2 of the Hep A shot and part 3 of the Hep B shot - unless of course we've traveled by then!!!!

Then it was on to the Milwaukee Zoo, one of our favorite places to visit. There is always something new to see. This time it was two new tiger cubs born on July 8th of this year, the hyenas, the bears being more active than we've ever seen them, and this book in the gift store! We fell in love with little Mahal, a baby orangutan, last spring when he arrived at the Zoo. His mother was not able to take care of him and the zookeepers were looking for an adoptive mother for him. (Can you tell why we like him so much!?) They decided to try MJ, a female orangutan who had no children of her own and lives at the Milwaukee Zoo. And the rest, they say, is history! This cute book tells the story and of course we had to buy it!!
















MJ and Mahal

09/17/09 - We're Ready!

We've got the champagne and sparkling grape juice chilling in the refrigerator (bought last week) and the high quality, plastic champagne glasses (bought today) waiting to be assembled. Now all we need is our referral call!!! (That's when America World, our international agency, calls to say they have two children for us!!!)


A Present: Craft to Complete with our Kids

This fun frame came from my friend Cathy as a thank you (although she didn't need to!) for watching her children one evening. I can't wait to work with our kids and add the different colored play-dough to the outside of the frame. Then we'll add a family picture!



09/11/09 - Happy Ethiopian New Year!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
September 11 is Ethiopia New Year!!

Selamta Every One!
Melkam Addis Amet lehulachin - a Happy New Year for all!

Ethiopia celebrates New Year’s Day in its own colorful way. New Year’s Day marks the end of heavy rain and its associated dangers. Floods are over, and there is no more fear of thunderstorms. The foggy, gloomy climate gives way to a bright one. Fragrant flowers cover the muddy fields. Greenery is everywhere, and there is no shortage of food. The Maskal birds that migrated during the rainy season re-appear. Hibernating frogs come to the surface and sing.

On the eve of the New Year, children leave their homes to assemble in groups. With the traditional song Abebaye hoy (Oh! My Flower), they herald the New Year to village inhabitants by going from house to house. Carrying special grass called engicha, mixed with adey abeba (fragrant wild flowers), children knock at each home in the village. They sing and present the grass to anyone they find at home or along the way. The people to whom the song is addressed do not immediately respond; instead they listen to the New Year’s message
for a considerable time. The song continues until the person gives presents to the children, such as dabbo (home baked bread) or coins. After receiving the gift, the children bless the giver, saying, “May the Almighty God bless you with longer age!” After performing the evening’s festivities, the children return home to begin the lighting ceremony. Each member of the family fastens together small sticks to serve as torches. In the late evening, family members light their torches and raise them into the air, while others run around the house and touch the ground with their torches. This ceremony is believed to chase away the old year with its old spirit, and welcome the new. If you look at a rural village from a distance in the late evening, you would see that it looks like a sky full of stars.

Early in the morning on New Year’s Day, families go to the river to have a bath. It is believed that New Year’s water is holy water. People go to the river early in the morning to bathe before birds or other creatures “taste” the river. It is also believed the water cleanses evil spirits that might have been in the community in the past year. With a clean body and new spirit, people put on new clothes. Depending on the family’s economic condition, sheep or chicken may be slaughtered. In wealthier families, sheep are bought in advance to be fattened for the day. Poorer families group together to buy and slaughter a heifer or bull, and share the meat.


On New Year’s Day, families invite each other for lunch or dinner. In each house, villagers eat and drink Tella, a locally brewed beer. A coffee ceremony follows. At the end of the ceremony, elders bless the children and other family members. This marks the end of the celebration of the Ethiopian New Year.

I marked the day by cooking my first Ethiopian dish - a spicy beef stew (although I was a bit frightened an left out the really "hot" spices. However, the dish was such a wonderful flavor of warm spices, I think I'll try adding a little bit of what I left out the next time I cook it.) served on injera (kind of like a cross between a tortilla and a pancake. The main dish is placed on top and you rip it off and eat it as you go.) and dabo kolo, an Ethiopian fried snack. We loved it but I want to try a different injera recipe next time!

09/02/09 - Getting Shots

We are not required to get any shots before traveling to Ethiopia but are recommended to have an up to date tetanus shot (both of us already do) and a Hepatitis A shot. We both got the first part of the shot and go back in six months for the second part ... unless we've traveled by then!!

More Celebration Books

More books in honor of our papers being certified back in May!

We Wanted You by Liz Rosenberg is our favorite adoption story children's book so far. It is a beautiful story of a mom and dad who are getting ready for their baby (including paint the room) but a baby does not come. Then one day the phone rings and they are told to come get the baby! The story uses the words "first mom and dad" which has become the way we will refer to our children's birth parents in Ethiopia, their first Mommy and first Daddy. (We will be their forever Mommy and forever Daddy.) The story goes on to describe the way the parents love and take care of the child and how that makes them a family. It is a beautiful story that ends with the child going away to college but the parents letting him know that they still want him!

More, More, More Said the Baby by Vera B. Williams is three short stories with multicultural families, including a white gramma with an African American child.

The Snowy Day by Ezra Jack Keats has been a favorite story of Amy's since she first heard it read/acted out with puppets in her children's literature class in college. We have since come to learn that it was the first children's book published to feature an African American main character. the wonderful character of Peter appears again in several of Keats books.

Newspaper Article

This article was so God! Amy emailed our local paper asking them to print a blurb about an upcoming event in regard to our adoption, and they emailed back the next day to say they wanted to do a story! They interviewed us both on the phone and sent a photographer to the house to take pictures. And they would like to continue the story when we receive our referral and when we bring our children home! WOW!

http://www.pioneerlocal.com/grayslake/news/1734523,grayslake-adopt-082709-s1.article