June in Review

This is one of my favorite pictures:Watching our African Children's Choir DVD and singing and dancing along with: Playing a colored shape match game - I tried this the week after the boys got home and it was disastrous! They had no problem this time:
Playing with funny hats:
Indoor sensory table on a rainy day:
Dress up costume I found at a rummage sale for $2.00 - John calls this the scary elephant costume and growls when he wears it:
Franklin the turtle:
I also found slippers for John at the rummage sale. Ryan has a Buzz Lightyear pair (thanks Tracy!) and we've been on the look out for John. It was about 90 degrees when he put these on:
Each week the Farmer's Market has a character the kids can meet. this week was Big Bird from Sesame Street. Ryan is clinging to my arm as Mike took this picture of John:
Father's Day - the boys made a hand print from a kit (thanks Ginger) and painted it for Mike:
I made a Happy Father's Day album - two pages of pictures of Mike and the boys added each year. I read about the idea in Family Fun magazine I think.
Four generations - Great Gramma, Gramma, Mommy-a, John and Ryan!
Family Zoo Day
the cousins:
everyone eating lunch:digging for dinosaur fossils at the special Dinosaur Exhibit:
standing like the raptor with wings out stretched:
having fun with a dinosaur statue:
There is a picture taken from the same angle of my niece Samantha and my Dad when she was a little younger than Ryan. We both saw this and remembered the picture and wanted to capture another with my Dad and Ryan:
Riding the Sky Lift Chair Ride:

I have ridden this ride with Samantha for as long as the ride has been there. I was so happy she still wanted to ride with me this year with the addition of Ryan. We then always try to take a self portrait of ourselves. I took about 15 pictures trying to get all three of us in:
Then finally gave up and just took a sideways picture of Samantha and Ryan!
feeding the goats:this is as close as Ryan got:
but he loved the automatic hand air dryers outside the goats' pen!
My sister discovered this place about six or seven years ago. It is incredible!!
feeding a baby calf:
a great group picture, Ryan, Gramma, Maddy Jo, John, Aunt Sarah, and Samantha:
feeding the deer:

Mommy and her boys!
the cousins - Sami made all the shirts!
There is also a wonderful hour and a half horse show. This is how Ryan looked the entire time!
petting the horses after the show:
feeding baby goats:


touching a lemur:
But one of our favorite parts was holding and playing with the kittens:


6/20/10 - Four Months

So our summer's been a little bit busy but I need to get this post in before the boys have been home five months!!
It seems like they have always been here and it's hard to remember what it sounded like before they were here. I know what it looked like - no toys scattered around - but I LOVE the obvious signs that two little boys live in this house.

John continues to learn and retain new concepts at a rapid pace, way faster than I would have anticipated. I know I am a little biased, but he is amazing! His sense of humor is coming out more and more and he knows when he is being funny. The other day while I was driving in the car, the road was curvy. He said, "Look Mommy-a" (which he frequently does and gets the answer, "I can't. I'm driving."). I looked over my shoulder and he was leaning over in the back seat like the turn in the road had been so sharp it knocked him over. And another time we were driving home late from the zoo and I said it would be alright if both boys shut there eyes and went to sleep. John closed his eyes for maybe 15 seconds, then opened them and replied matter of factly, "No, Mommy-a. I can't sleep." he them proceeded to make up songs all the way home (that's another blog!). He loves cars, being outside, cars, our little kiddie pool and the sprinkler park, riding his bike, did I mention cars?, doing projects, camping, playing at the park, going to church, Toy Story, Madagascar, Tarzan, and Ice Age, and babies (we have taught/are trying to teach him to say, "My name is John. Can I see your baby?" but he has informed us that if we had a baby in our house we could kiss it and hug it because it would be our baby!). He is friendly, outgoing, helpful, sharing (sometimes) and confident. He is a joy in our lives!

Ryan's language development has REALLY taken off - he repeats everything that is said (much to the annoyance of his brother!) and is so proud when he knows words and concepts (Mommy's Bible - my Bible). He is putting together three and four word sentences and recently when following my Mom's car he shouted, "See Gramma car again." (I was super excited about that sentence!). He LOVES to do whatever John is doing but is also developing into his own person. He loves cars, dancing (and boy does he have some great moves!), having his own way, doing everything himself, jumping belly first into the kiddie pool, climbing at the park, cuddling, flushing the toilet, glue and scissors projects, playing in dress up clothes, virtually every food we give him, Toy Story, Madagascar, Tarzan, and Ice Age, and pretending to cook. He loves to help make muffins and put clean dishes away. He is quiet in new situations but has become more adventurous. He is a goof with the cutest smile ever which is a good thing with all the tantrums he throws! However, he does not argue when we say go up to bed and come down when you are ready to make good choices. He loves to pray for each of the member in his family (Jesus, I love you - which comes out sounding like luff woo - Jesus, I love you Mommy-a, Jesus, I love you Ababa, Jesus, I love you John Eyob, Jesus, I love you my.) He is a joy in our lives.


And thank you to all who faithfully check our blog every day to see if there is a new post - that support means so much and I am going to try and do better at posting!

6/18/10 - First Sprinkler Park Visit!

Today was one of the first nice days since the sprinkler park opened on Memorial Day, so we packed a lunch, got our swim suits on, and headed out for a new adventure this morning!

This is my favorite picture because Ryan was squealing with delight as he ran through the water!
Can you find John standing underneath the falling water!?
The boys loved running through this part of the park and John came and got me shortly after arriving saying it was my turn!
They had seen these giant squirt guns on the picture of the sprinkler park I showed them on the computer yesterday. John spent all yesterday afternoon and this morning saying how he was going to squirt people!
On the way to the car:

It was a great time and the boys took a fantastic nap!
The boys in action:

6/12/10 - Milkshake Concert

We attended our first children's concert with friends at Ravinia last weekend, a children's rock band called Milkshake. We had purchased lawn tickets and planned to sit on a blanket and chairs, take in the concert, let the kids run and dance, and eat! Mother Nature had a different plan. We had not even settled in, when they moved all of us on the lawn into the pavilion and it began to pour rain - but hey, we paid $5 for $10 tickets (thanks Cog and Harry for the gift that made this fun day possible!)

Milkshake on stage:
John and our friend Eleanor as the concert started:
Ryan as the concert started:
I think the boys had trouble realizing that what we had been listening to on CDs was now live right on stage!



We stood in back to eat our lunch!
One of my best friends Gloria!


You know you're an adoptive parent (or should be) if:

I copied this off someone else's blog when we first started our process and have just now gone back and re-read it. Everyone is completely true of us!

You know you're an adoptive parent (or should be) if:
1. The fact that there are 143 million children without a parent to kiss them goodnight has made you lose sleep.

2. You realize DNA has nothing to do with love and family.

3. You can't watch Adoption Stories on TLC without sobbing.

4. The fact that, if 7% of Christians adopted 1 child there would be no orphans in the world, is convicting to you.

5. You spend free time surfing blogs about families who have experienced the blessing of adoption.

6. It drives you crazy when people ask you about adopted child's "real" parents.

7. You have ever been "pregnant" with your adoptive child longer than it takes an elephant to give birth.(2 years!)

8. You had no idea how you would afford to adopt but stepped out in faith anyway, knowing where God calls you He will provide.

9. You have ever taken an airplane ride half-way around the world with a child you just met.

10. You believe God's heart is for adoption.

11. You realize that welcoming a child into your heart and family is one of the most important legacies you could ever leave on this earth.

12. You know what the word "Dossier" means, and you can actually pronounce it!

13. You have welcomed a social worker into the most private parts of your life.

14. You shudder when people say your child is so lucky that you adopted them, knowing full well you are the blessed one to have him or her in your life.
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06/11/10 - The Big Backyard

We are part of a Southeastern Wisconsin Ethiopian Adoption Yahoo Group (try saying that three times fast!) and some of us recently met at an indoor play facility called The Big Backyard for a play date.

Even though there was a GIANT play house with four slides and a climbing wall, the boys spent most of the time driving these cars but they had fun so who cares!

The slides were super fast so here is John running into me before I could get out of the way:
Ryan on a climbing ladder. Once he discovered the super fast slide, he went down it about a dozen times!
John loves climbing walls:
Ryan loves to pretend he is cooking:

Strawberries

We have several strawberry bushes growing in the back garden and the boys have loved watching the strawberries begin to grow and checking to see if they have turned red. Needless to say that as they have gotten ripe enough to pick, the boys have been excited! We have checked very day this week, picked some, and popped them in our mouths! John does like the strawberries even though he is making a funny face.

And Ryan really just likes picking them as opposed to eating them!